Recently I contacted my former advisees who are now rising
sophomores in college. Several offered
advice for incoming freshmen. Here are three
different replies from students attending a large public university, a small
liberal arts college, and a mid-sized private university. Though each student’s experience and perspective
is unique, all college students share similar experiences transitioning from
home, meeting friends and adjusting to roommates and learning how to study and perform
academically in a new environment.
Below is a summary of their advice as well as a link to previous
blog posts offering advice to incoming freshmen.
Good luck settling in and enjoy your first term!
Advice from Katrina
at Cal Poly SLO:
--College friends
may come slowly, but once you find them they are invaluable and worth your
time. Spend time with people every weekend.
--You should always
feel like yourself in your dorm room. Do not let a roommate ruin your college
experience, even if he or she is much different from you.
--Make time for
your favorite activities on campus.
--Try new clubs and
activities that spark your interest.
--Eat in the
cafeteria -- sometimes this is the easiest way to get to know people. Don't be
afraid to introduce yourself to someone new.
--Explore the new
area that you move into. Go off campus as much as you can, and befriend people
who like to do the same.
--Make time for
yourself in your dorm room and the end of the day. Calm down, drink tea, eat
chocolate.
--Always have your
favorite snacks and desserts in your dorm stockpiled for studying.
--Make use of
resources on campus, whether it’s going to the gym or office hours.
--Get out of the
dorm even on days you do not have class. It will allow you to get to know
campus and socialize.
--Set personal
boundaries and schedule your time: determine when you like to go to bed, to
eat, do homework, to relax.
--Love your school!
Be grateful for the choice you have made and appreciate the college experience.
--If offered, participate in your school’s pre-orientation
trip/program. I participated in
one of our pre-orientation programs, Macward Bound, which was a five day
backpacking trip on the Superior Hiking Trail. I was apprehensive--meeting new
people, leaving home early--however, it was one of the best decisions I’ve ever
made. The trip introduced me to ten amazing people that I’m still friends with
today (two of which are my roommates for the upcoming year) and helped me ease
into the difficult transition into college life.
--You don’t have to
be best friends with your first year roommate. Sometimes you and your roommate
are going to have completely incongruent interests and schedules, and that’s
perfectly fine. My roommate and I were friendly but not super good friends, and
I believe this allowed me to branch out socially and have a friend group that
was a coalescence of classmates, teammates, and people I’d met while in line at
the dining hall.
--Take advantage of
your school’s resources, whether it be academic resources, social resources, or
health resources. One thing I was really glad I did was make strong connections
with my professors. The department offices are great places to be around
professors in a less menacing setting than the classroom (plus, our department
offices were always stocked with snacks and the occasional pizza day).
Advice from Zach,
attending Stanford University:
--Take a light first term—this allows more time to adjust
to a college schedule as well as make new friends.
--Seek out your
passions. This is another way to make connections and form friendships with
people who share similar interests.
--Allow time for
deep or extended conversations: at the dining hall, in your dorm lounge, wherever. Appreciate this opportunity to learn about
yourself and others.
--Appreciate and
search for new perspectives. Get outside
your political or social bubble to expose yourself to new ideas and approaches.
8/17: Advice for College Freshmen
8/15: Transition to College